Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Life right now 

           Life right now is pretty dang good! Even though not that many big things have changed, little things have. A lot that has changed is my attitude. In one of my class's we talked a lot about attitude, and how it can effect every aspect of your life. It really is true. My professor told us a story about a man who had a car accident and when he was talking to his wife about it. His wife asked him why he was in such a good mood after being in a car accident, "shouldn't you be upset?" He replied well I can have a broken car and be miserable or I can have a broken car and be happy, its my choice. Another great quote my Professor taught my class was that its all about reaction, how you react to things. That is what has helped me a lot is taking a minute to look at my situation and realizing that things are not even close to being bad. So that is my first thought for this post, that Attitude is everything.


         I went on a date the other night and as part of our conversation we got talking about dating haha. We both came to the conclusion that you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. I can't explain how true this really is. There are so many people I see that want a significant other, but either don't have the self confidence to do so, or don't even love themselves. Yes we all have points in our lives where we aren't in the best moods but that cannot be all the time. Another point we brought up is Selfishness. That is the worst thing in this world. Yes we should be selfish about some things. But we all need to try and help more people. Life isn't really about making yourself happy, its about helping others to be happy. 

          
           I hope that whoever reads this doesn't think I am trying to tell people how to live their lives, because I probably make more mistakes in a day than most people. I just would like to share the little things that I have learned in these past months, that have helped me. 

          As a final thought remember that everything works out in the end and worrying about it isn't going to help, so you might as well make life as fun as possible. 

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